Welcome Back to Mix Tape Monday, the blog series that celebrates the lost art of mix-tape making. Today is Part II of our “Crush Mix” series, the Unrequited Crush!
Now, there are two types of Unrequited Crush Mix. The first is made up entirely of Smiths songs like “Last Night I Dreamt That Somebody Loved Me” and is made for moping around because boo-hoo, your crush doesn’t notice you.
This is not that mix.
Rather, this is one that celebrates the unrequited love as a love that cannot ever be, but is still fun to have. It’s the kind of crush that makes you happy and tingly because you know it can never be consummated, which is how it can remain so perfect. This is a mix solely for you to listen to when you are feeling dreamy and excitable and giddy in love, so go crazy.
This mix is called the Grey Chalk Playlist (2014) and it’s fairly brief.
Because I made this one for my TV-crush, I open it with a sound clip from one of his shows so I can hear his sexy, sexy voice. It, ah, sets the mood.
Welcome back to Mix Tape Monday, the blog series that celebrates all things mix-related. Today we’re talking about the whole reason Mix Tapes were invented–The Crush Mix.
You know the drill. You’re so head-over-heels in love with someone that every song you hear reminds you of them. You savor the music that played on the radio when they happened to glance your way, convinced it was destiny that that song came on at that exact moment. But you don’t know if they’re feeling the same, so you test the waters with a tape that could be plutonic…but really, your heart is bleeding through every single lyric. The Crush Mix is meant to be listened to on headphones, alone and in one go, so plan your lyrics and transitions accordingly. Sound clips are not advised here.
There are two types of Crush Mixes–the hopeful and the unrequited. Today, we’ll be looking at the first, using a mix I titled Songs For Your Future Front Office (2005). I’m not going to tell you who I made it for, but if you’re out there, Darling Recipient, feel free to identify yourself. Obviously, this one went unrequited, but it was still fun to make, and I still think fondly of the recipient. Let’s get started!